The Trick to Being Flirty

” I could drown in your eyes” is a bit of a cliche saying that a lot of men still use. However, to most of us ladies, it sound corny and may even reach 10 on what I call the “Cornymeter”. I was having a giggle with some Surrey escorts about some of the corny things men say to us ladies, and expect us to like.

Like the Surrey escorts said, they think it is flirty but we just think it is corny. But, at the same time one of the Surrey escorts said that it isn’t easy to flirt without being corny. Flirting is a bit of an art form according to a couple of the Surrey escorts, and many of the Surrey escorts are experienced “flirters”.

However, the Surrey escorts are quick to point out that many ways of flirting with women are some what out dated. Men really need to change their attitude towards flirting, women are not the “little women” that they once used to be. At the same time, the Surrey escorts pointed out that many men still respond to the old cliches, and seem to rather enjoy them. Does that mean that men are not as sophisticated creatures that we expect them to be?

To be Corny or Not according to Surrey Escorts

How to flirt in modern day life is a bit of a minefield. The problem is that ladies don’t like to patronised any more, so I am afraid that old cliches don’t work any more. But, what do you do instead? Do you say to your girl friend that she is amazing because she earns £100,000 per year? I don’t think that would work at all because she would think that you are after her money.

Should we leave flirting out of it altogether? No, we should but perhaps we should learn to be genuine about. Let’s get really confused and lets start talking about compliments as well.

The truth is that using compliments might be the best way of flirting. You may wish to compliment your love interest on her new dress, or just tell her that she looks sensational. But here is the kicker, don’t do it in a fly by night fashion. Do eat more genuinely and make it sound like you mean it.

Slow down a little bit, stop and look at her and THEN tell her. You look stunning tonight darling, and the flirt  i.e. compliment will have a totally different meaning.

Flirt Discreetly

Top tip here boys, my ex was really good at flirting. He used to buy me a lot of flowers, and with every bunch delivered was a little card, explaining the meaning of the flower or flowers. It was not only a nice way of flirting but he was being really romantic as well. It was just a nice little touch that meant that an extra thought had gone into the “flirt”.

But then again, I have to say that there is nothing like a quick wink of the eye. It can make you feel on top of the world on a cold day, and when you are a bit down it can give you a boost. Wink, wink…